Thursday, December 31, 2015

A Letter to My Daughter

Dear Analía,

You are not born yet but I wanted to write you. In less than six weeks, you will take your first breath, and then begin a journey with many other firsts. It's exciting -- life will be full of new experiences and landmarks.

Your mother and I have been preparing for your arrival for quite awhile now. Like loyal subjects preparing a visit from the princess, all arrangements are being made. You have a comfy crib waiting in our home. Car seats, diapers, and bottles are new and unused. Everything -- well, most everything -- has been bought and paid for.

Let me be the first to admit, you haven't been easy. I know, how difficult could you be when you are limited to the area of your mommy's tummy?! I should probably have your mother explain that to you in more depth. She is the one dealing with discomfort, exhaustion, and a whole host of issues that come with pregnancy.

Actually, since you haven't met us, let me introduce you to your parents. I, Chris, am your father. Imagine me saying that in a Darth Vader voice. He's a villain in a great movie that you will eventually see when you are old enough.  I don't want to give you any spoilers, but I digress. Your mother, Elizabeth, is a beautiful woman who has to put up with me. We will unconditionally love you, rear you, and provide for you (until you are 18, then you are on your own! Just kidding ;)

I'm writing to you, in part, to help you prepare for a life in this world. The people whom inhabit Earth, the planet that you will be living on, are unusual. Each person is unique with his or her own quirks and strengths. Remember to be kind to all. It's important that you treat others with respect and to expect others to treat you with respect, meaning that you need to stand up for yourself, and what you believe in.

Your mother and I look forward to seeing who you become and what you believe. We want you to be your own person, but grounded in good values. In a world full of diverse opinions, it is essential that you base your beliefs in evidence. So much junk out there relies on prejudice, ignorance, and fear. Don't succumb or be fooled by simplicity. Life is extremely complex. Embrace the unknown and always remain curious.

One thing, however, is non-negotiable. You must be a Dodgers fan. It's a family tradition, on both sides of your family. We wear blue. In fact, we bleed blue. Figuratively speaking, of course. It's just the way it is. Your mom and dad will take you to plenty of games. It will be a lot of fun, especially when you move on up from milk to Dodger dogs.

As you live your life, remember to not take things too seriously. Laugh when you can. Cry when you must. Never pass on an opportunity to see a good movie.

When you need to talk about something, anything, always know that you can speak with your parents. We may not have an answer for you, or be suitable to help, but we will always try to do what's right for you. Because we are a family and we can do it together. We love you. We can't wait to meet you.